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Weekly Musing: What is a REAL Writer?

For some reason 2016 has turned into the year where I’ve questioned different aspects of writing. Questioning what it is that I truly want from my writing career. Questioning what kind of writer I want to be. Questioning who and what to pay attention to, just to give a small sampling of the existential crisis I seem to be suffering from.

One of the questions I’ve asked myself repeatedly is “What is a real writer?” Is it the person who wins literary awards and is a critics’ darling? Is it the person who sells millions of books and rakes in staggering amounts of money? Is it the person who slaves away for years, decades in obscurity, never has a single thing published, yet has an amazing amount of talent? Or is it something else?

Yes.

A real writer is all of that and everything in between. I used to have a narrow view of what constituted a real writer. I believed I couldn’t call myself a real writer until I had something published. Or made the transition from writing short stories to novels. Or having a novel published. In my ignorance I relied upon my ignorance of what I thought it meant to be a writer as inaccurately presented to me via the media.

However, this year I’ve determined the definition is whatever each individual writer determines it to be. In a way it’s similar to what you define as success and how you go about achieving it. As human beings it’s difficult to not compare ourselves to others. It’s how we motivate and push ourselves to do better in life. It’s also how we can wind up destroying our lives feeling we cannot live up to expectations. It doesn’t help when others give strong opinions on the topic. The adamant, confidence in which our favorite author or fellow writers speak with gets into our heads.

Hell, I’ve probably made an asinine statement defining it somewhere on this blog. If I have, I apologize and seriously, ignore it unless I somehow wasn’t an ass and said a “real” writer is whatever the hell you think it is.

I’ll tell you what I originally thought what made a real writer. I used to think I could never call myself truly a writer until I had at least one story published. Even when it happened I changed the definition to “Oh, I’m not really a writer until I can make a steady income and publish novels.”

I’m not quite sure how detrimental this has been to my growth. I think it has at the same time pushed me and saddened me when I think about how either of those things may not happen. I’m still relatively young so realistically both things are very possible. I’m sure as I continue on along this journey I’ll be revising my definition of a real writer. Or perhaps I’ll just throw such a thought out the window and be kinder to myself. To realize that yes, I am a writer. A flesh and blood writer who should keep going on, and to stop trying to define something with no true definition.

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Weekly Musing: Get Paid!

The starving artist. A man or woman suffering for his or her art rather than “sell out”. They do it for love, not coin you capitalist pigs! They are above everyone else who works for a living as their motivation is a deep passion burning within their heart. The artist is a better creature, the ideal we all secretly wish we were.

What a noble image. Except it’s not. Quite frankly it’s bullshit ideal to aspire to. People are paid to do pretty much anything and everything yet when it comes to music, acting, writing, dancing, and the others arts, there tends to be this hesitation about payment and when. An overwhelming majority of artists have “real” jobs that provide a living income. This job is in addition to practicing their art in the hopes of making their passion their “real” job.

NOTE: Before I go further I want to make clear this isn’t a post about the lack of fine arts support or that I’m referring to novels. I’m strictly relaying my opinion based upon my experiences with submitting short stories.

I wish I had realized a years ago that instead of sending my short stories to places who only promised “exposure” and contributor copies upon publication that there was another option. I also wish I hadn’t submitted places that charged reading and entry fees especially when no payment was offered upon acceptance.

But I did it because as a beginner I listened to wise veterans espousing it is perfectly okay and even expected to give our work away for free. The (il)logic behind it is you need to build your portfolio of publication credits in order to achieve bigger and better success. Also it is about paying one’s dues on the ladder of success. Last year I had an epiphany where I realized how wonky and untrue this is. If a story or poem has merit, it will be accepted regardless of how many publications you have under your belt. Many places claim they read the submissions blind so whatever publishing credits you do or don’t have aren’t influencing their decision.

Let’s breakdown the notion of paying a writer in exposure and contributor copies only. Honestly, with the exception of a handful of publications, if the only promise upon publication is exposure, then it’s not worth it. With so many print and online magazines competing for the same audience, exposure probably isn’t what it’s cracked up to be. And if the magazine can’t afford to pay even a token fee of a few dollars then you have to think about how large their audience really is.

One of my biggest pet peeves in all of this is the entry or reading fee. I hesitate to use the word scam because many honest and reputable entities, like Writer’s Digest, have them in connection with their contests. Overall, though, to me reading/entry fees are a way for magazines to make money. I understand a vast majority aren’t rolling in dough and the fee is covers website and printing (if there are any) costs and to compensate for the editor’s time. If it’s a contest, sometimes the outfit openly admits the fee is what pays for the prize money.

But what about the value of our time? Does not our work deserve compensation, too? After all, our work is the reason why you have anything to edit. And why ask writers, a profession that historically is not known as well-paying, to be your revenue stream? Plenty of sites exist where people are willing to donate money in order to help people fund projects. There’s also the oh-so-lovely option of advertisements. Don’t ask your content providers to also be your funding source. Even if the fee is a small amount like $3 or $5, that’s still asking a writer to pay in the slim hopes of being published.

If you are a writer and want to pursue publication, don’t give into the temptation to submit your short stories and poetry when there is no financial compensation. Even when the reward is a few dollars, at least someone is willing to give you money for your efforts. It doesn’t make you a sell out or an arrogant jerk to expect it. Hell, the first piece I ever had accepted I received money for and it was a story I sent in on a lark. What did I have to lose, after all?

Unfortunately I kept submitting work to places that offered no compensation or who charged a fee. As a result, the next few stories published I made nothing. Yes, it’s a great feeling to know someone thought your work worthy enough to be published. I am very grateful for every story published regardless of dollar amount. But I wish I’d had more belief in my ability to allow myself to acknowledge every short story is worth something.

While the number of places willing to pay for work is smaller than those offering exposure only, plenty of publishers exist who will. A couple of places I like to use to discover publishing opportunities are Submission Grinder and Ralan.com. EveryWritersResource.com allows you to sign up to receive an email whenever a new publishing opportunity arises. Not every website link they send is a paying market, but it’s another source I’ve found useful. Authors Publish is another place that sends an email with links to publishing opportunities, both paying and not. They also include links to articles on a variety of topics and they also include book publishers seeking stories.

Over the past year I’ve been submitting my short stories only to paying outfits. Has it limited the number of opportunities available to me? Yes, however, between last year and year-to-date I’ve submitted work to 70 paying markets. That doesn’t mean I only found 70 paying markets because there were more. I passed on some because either I couldn’t have something ready by their deadline or the market didn’t seem like the right fit for my work.

So I say to anyone other there submitting work, don’t be afraid to submit it to places that will give you money. Your time and your art are worth it. There are places waiting for a story like yours and doors are open if you look for them.

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Weekly Musing: Useful Bloggery

Partially inspired by Writers’ Digest’s annual 101 Best Websites and to celebrate my blog’s 3rd anniversary, I thought I’d briefly talk about a few of the blogs I personally enjoy. When I first took writing seriously, I followed several blog in an attempt to absorb any and all information I could get my hands on. After a while my inbox became overrun with notifications of the latest blog postings and when I didn’t get to them right away, I got behind. Soon it became too overwhelming so I pared down what I subscribed to only those blogs I actually read. There truly can be too much of a good thing.

Below is a list I’ve narrowed down to my top three blogs I enjoy and find to be the most useful.

Anne R. Allen – I’ve probably been following this blog the longest having first heard about it via Writer’s Digest. This blog is almost always on that list and for good reason. With authors Anne R. Allen and Ruth Harris at the helm, this site posts once a week a topic relevant to the publishing industry. While they and their guest bloggers are all seasoned, professional writers, I find many of their posts offer great advice for of all levels. What I like best is they don’t offer the typical advice given to writers, but rather more realistic advice. Not only do they offer advice on the craft but also touch upon all areas of writing and publishing. They keep up with the fact that the industry as a whole is always changing so they strive not to offer advice which may have been valid years ago before the rise of digital books.

What I really respond to the most with this blog is not only the humorous and down-to-earth writing style, but also how honest they are. It’s a perfect balance between encouragement and realism. Often Anne R. Allen’s blog has inspired blog posts of my own because I find them that thought-provoking especially on topics I thought I was in the minority in believing.

Chuck Wendig – This one is a recent discovery as I stumbled upon via a friend sharing one of his posts on Facebook. I’m glad I found it as Wendig’s blog is funny (the humor being NSFW which admittedly is up my alley) and honest. In the short amount of time I’ve been following Wendig’s blog, I’ve learned quite a bit as he has spoken upon a variety of topics ranging from conventions to publishing to life in general. He even posts writing challenges each week by incorporating a love of photography using his own photos to help inspire a flash fiction story.

Usually posting 2 to 3 a week, he somehow manages to stay consistent with the humor. Hell, even his guest bloggers are pretty adept at matching the tone and style while still sounding like their own person. Like the other blogs I follow, he brings realism and honesty to what he talks about and is the first person to admit that what his experiences aren’t the only way to go about being successful in publishing. His, like others, are just one example of one path to success.

Jami Gold – Another recent discovery, I quickly became a fan of hers because not only is she down-to-earth, she readily admits she’s a perfectionist. Recently this became a major problem as she talked about writers must take care of themselves. From her own experiences she tells her audience that she was running herself so ragged some serious health issues arose. But she kept pushing those aside due to numerous deadlines and to keep up with the expectations modern writers are told they must do in order to be successful. Eventually this caught up with her as she could no longer put off seeing the doctor as her vision became impaired.

But beyond her tales of running her body on empty for too long, I like she admits she’s a perfectionist. Being a perfectionist is a really bad thing if you are a writer. Nothing you write will ever be good enough, no matter who tells you otherwise. It’s nice reading about a fellow perfectionist writer to see how she handles it. Also, while her recent health matters may seem extreme, it nevertheless serves as a cautionary tale about listening to every single piece of advice on how to become a “successful” writer.

 

In addition to the above mentioned blogs, I also enjoy Unusual Historicals (great for those who appreciate the underappreciated people and places of history), Writer Beware (which is more of a website, in my opinion, rather than a blog), Romance University (great advice for a writer of any genre), English Historical Fiction Authors (good source for inspiration), and Writers in the Storm (another great place for general advice).

With so much information out there it’s important to me to find those blogs which won’t waste my time. It’s also important to me to find the kind of information which will be helpful to me not only in this still early stage in my career, but as I continue to grow. And I hope that my little corner of the internet has mirrored my own growth as a writer over the past few years.